Sunday, July 13, 2014

Lady from China at Sycamore!

I met a lady at my church today named Angela who is from Hunan China, a province very near to the province Michal will most likely be from the Henan provice which is where our agency CCAIs orphanages are located.

 My friend Sophia and I were trying to share the gospel with her. She had difficulty understanding what we were saying because her first language is Mandarin (Chinese). Even though she had difficulty, through pictures and because of her strong desire to understand, I believe she understood most of what we were explaining.

How cool is that?

She wrote Michal's name in Chhinese characters.


She told me the meaning of the three characters are: rice-cut-girl. We can guess/speculate what the meaning of those Chinese characters have to do with Michal. We believe that names are very important. Names in the Bible were very important. God told me years ago what to name Michal. So her name is from God! Therefore, it makes a lot of sense that there would be deep meaning to her name in relation to who God has made her to be!

In Hebrew and the commonly accepted American meaning for Michal is "one who is like God".

 I feel rice-cut-girl could be rice representing China, cut could represent the cleft lip and palate she will most likely have (the most common medical need we put down on our paperwork) and/or the fact that we will be taking her from China (kinda of symbolizing cutting her off/out of China) and of course she is a girl!  God told us to adopt a girl & that is what our paper work is approved for.

Another meaning Matthew was told from some other people that speak Mandarin is rice-collect-girl. Maybe that speaks to what her family does. Maybe they are rice farmers. Only God knows and we cannot wait to find out!

All of this is God showing us His Soveringty more & more. Showing how well he planned all of this. Showing yet again that none of this is being done by accident or coincidence. 

Angela told us about the Chinese Christian Church in China. She said there was a million people in one public church. Everything is censored by the Chinese government. The church passed out Bibles, but almost no one would take them even though it was an expensive, hard back, valuable book there in China. Those that took the Bibles had to hide them for fear of being teased, called stupid or possible danger from the government. She told how her husband who still lives in China hides his Bible high up on a shelf behind many other books. She said if the people in China really understood Christianity they would all receive salvation.

She left her job as a teacher in China to come to America to escape the oppression. For 5 years she hasn't had a job here, but she says no matter how hard it is here she chooses America. She said her neighbors in China were so oppressive that when she played music they would come over and ask what she was doing/yell at her for playing  music. She said the people there lacked hope so much that they committed suicide all the time. Jumping off a thirteen story building. 

She said her mom was constantly critical.  Angela's mom would say she (her mom) herself was God and that many, many people in China hold the belief that they themselves are God. Wow. What a scary thought. If a person thinks they are God they have a license to do anything you want= Chaos.

She came here five years ago with her son who is currently attending SCAD to receive a degree in architecture. Her husband is still in China. He is a musician. He hopes to join them here in America after his son graduates, gets a job and can provide the money for him to travel here. 

Angela says the oppression from her family and community was so great she never wants to return to China as long as she lives. They think she is stupid or crazy for believing in God and the truths of the Bible. Her family is angry that she left because she was a teacher and ran a school. She allowed all of the children in the family to attend the school for free, but she had to close the school when she left.

I am grateful that I met her and will have the chance to know her for at least the next year until her son gets a job and moves away. I am thankful she will be able to know Michal and teach her some Mandarine and some things about her country. Things I can't teach her, but things that are very much a part of who she is. It will be a joy to bless Angela back by helping her understand the Bible and encouraging her in her faith! God is so good! Praise Him from whom all blessings flow.

Sunday, June 29, 2014

Wait on The Lord

but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. (Isaiah 40:31 NIV)

We are living this out right now as we wait to complete our adoption.

Our pastor, Dane Moore preached on waiting on God today. He said:

Waiting on God is NOT:
-being lazy
-going to sleep
-checking out

Things you should do while you wait:
-actively listen
-be willing to submit it all to Him
-REST in God
-let God work in your life so much that you are willing to NOT fight Him.
-Claim peace 
-understand He is providing the courage & strength to get through the wait.

GOD DOES NOT MAKE YOU WAIT FOR NO REASON.

One of the fruits of waiting is understanding the sovereignty of God. Understanding He has a purpose and a plan for your life & it is good!

This has been a great time of growth & maturing in my faith. To actually walk out all those things listed above.

Naturally, I am just like everyone else. I have a little girl in China & I want to get her NOW, but for reasons I don't know or understand, God says WAIT.

That is not what I like to hear, but I trust Him! I know when she is home I can trust that He lead us to the one little girl He picked out for US before time began. I know He is caring for Michal right now while I can't. I know each night when I pray for her God hears & answers those prayers. Each time the boys and I pray for Michal, our love for her GROWS & GROWS. When she gets here, she will NOT be a stranger. SHE WILL JUST FINALLY BE HOME!



Monday, April 28, 2014

Moving up in line

Just to update everyone, CCAI, our adoption agency told us back in December when we got our Log-in date (date Dossier was received in China) that the average wait time to be matched with a female with cleft lip and palate (the most common medical need we selected on our medical Needs Checklist) is 8 mths. When we found that out, we were shocked. We had no idea it could take that long. We thought as soon as we completed our paperwork, we would be matched quickly and planning to travel. It does happen that way some times, but that is not common. 

At that time, I decided I better make peace with waiting or I would be climbing the walls right now.Waiting is not fun. I don't want to do it. However, I trust God. I know He has the one and only correct plan. He alone knows the path to connect us to the little girl He planned for us before time began. I will not rush or interfere with His plan in any way. 


So, all that said, it was really cool when I recently realized we have already taken 5 mths off of the predicted 8 mth wait!

The way I explained it to the boys today was, "We are in a line. There are lots of people in line in front of us waiting to be matched with their kids. Each day we move up in that line, closer to being matched." I think it helped them understand and it gave me a good visual reference too! It is nice to view the process that way, because some time when there is nothing left we can do (other than pray) it can feel like nothing's happening. I prefer seeing us move up in line a little more each day a lot better!

Please keep praying! 

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

We need to take care of our own

Here is a link for those of you who have asked or heard people comment that, "There are a lot of kid right here in America that need homes." "Why foriegn adoption?" There is a lot of misinformation out there and this link helps clear up a lot of that. I hope you find it helpful!


http://mineinchina.wordpress.com/2014/04/14/we-need-to-take-care-of-our-own/

Sunday, March 9, 2014

True & authentic faith

This is the testimony of our friends Greg & Stacey of their adoption journeys. Oh yes, I said journeys with an s. They have 4 biological children and 3 adopted children and they are in the process of adopting another child from Ukraine. With all the unrest on Ukranine, please keep them in your prayers. They are supposed to travel to get their daughter in May. Please pray that will happen with no problems. Thank you & God bless!

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

The Official Manning Both Hands Project Video





This video is a labor of love. It took 3 people and 3 programs numerous attempts a week and 2 1/2 days to get it completed! Please SHARE via any email or social media you have available! We want this video and the news of the Biblical command God gives us to care for widows and orphans to go as far and as wide as God will take it! 



James 1:27  Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.



It is NOT too late to give to the project! Please use this link to Give Now! http://bothhandsfoundation.org/matt-and-bethany-manning 



Thank you for your continued prayers and support as we continue to wait for the phone to ring. We will have been officially waiting (our Log in date in China) 3 months on 3/10/2014 (Jackson's 5th bday by the way). CCAI, our adotption agency says it can take up to 8 months to be matched with a female with Cleft Lip/Palate. We are praying it won't be that long, but we know God has the timing perfectly worked out and He is sovereign, so we trust that He will let us go get her ASAP!

Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Both Hands Pictures

 Here are some pictures from our fabulous Both Hands Project last Saturday 2/22/2014. 

God blessed us so much! Great weather! Great Team! Everyone worked SO well together!
We had about 23 people from the Sycamore Church, as well as 5 adults and 1 child from Silk Hope Baptist church!28 volunteers in all!

We got all the projects we planned done, as well as some bonus items.
  • We replaced a fence
  • Painted the pump house
  • Pressure washed
  • Painted the bathroom vanity
  • Removed a window A/C unit and repaired the whole in the wall.
  • Fixed a glass door
  • Closed up a pet door
  • Repainted shutters, house numbers, and metal work.
  • Trimmed trees
  • Cleared yard debris
  • Planted a flower garden and a raised vegtable garden as a SURPRISE for Mrs. Maddox.


Mrs. Bessie Maddox was so pleased with all the work that was done! It will take some concerns off her mind for a while!

God was Glorified and we are thankful we were a part of it.

It is NOT too late to give. Please click this link to give now http://bothhandsfoundation.org/matt-and-bethany-manning